The Carpenter by David Wilcox & Thoughts on Building Bridges

“The Carpenter” is a great song by a favorite artist of mine and I have a hard time believing it’s not on YouTube or somewhere but I can’t find it! So reading reading the lyrics works really well. David Wilcox (Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, blog) is a singer that I really enjoy because he’s actually a storyteller who happens to put his stories to music.

The images he creates in so many of his songs grab me. The images are part of the world I live in, with the back roads and small towns being central to the character of the people who live there. Maybe that’s because although he know lives in North Carolina, he reflects on his home in the Midwest:

The midwest in the fall affects me with that blissful combination of the sweet ache of mortality (the leaves) along with the humbling flatness of feeling earthbound  (the close gray sky).  The midwest knows me better than anywhere.  It is still home.

His song “The Carpenter” strikes me as so realistic every time I hear it that I stop what I’m doing to listen. And every time I hear it, I am certain I know those two farmers. Folks who dug their heels in somewhere along the way and later were willing to say “awww, hell, I knew that….”  I also know lots of farmers who are busy building bridges, even if they are metaphorical ones! 

Lyrics to “The Carpenter” by David Wilcox

I don’t know how long it had been, since these neighbors had even talked to each other.

I think it had been about two years, maybe.

And it started over the dumbest thing. It was just that stray cat.

I mean, one of them thought it was theirs and then it went over to the other porch there, across the little field, the valley there.

And the other farmer took it in. Each of them thought it was their cat, and every time they’d start talking, they’d start arguing about it.

And then they just quit talking.

And so that when the traveler came through looking for work, one farmer said, “Well, yeah. You say you’re a carpenter, I’ve got some work for you.”

“You see that house across this field here? Well, that’s my damn neighbor!” “You see this little ditch here in the middle? Well, he calls that the creek!” “He dug that with his plow! He went up on the hill and changed the way the spring comes down!” “The creek! It’s got a little trickle running through there.”

“Well, if he’s gonna try to divide us up with that thing, I’ll jus’ as soon finish the job. I want a fence – all the way across. I don’t even want to have to look at him! Can you do that?”

And this carpenter says, “Well, yeah, I could do that. I would need a whole lot more wood. But I could get started with what you’ve got in the shed there, you’d have to go into town.”

And by the time that farmer comes back, driving up that ole rutted road in his truck, full of that lumber. And he looks out into that field, where his new fence ought to be, and that carpenter has built.. a …. bridge.

Out of his wood! Onto his land! And here comes his neighbor! Walking across his bridge, walking onto his land, hand out-stretched, big ol’ stupid smile on his face.

Coming right up to his truck, and his neighbor says, “You’re, you’re a brave man, I didn’t think you’d ever want to hear the sound of my voice again.” “I feel like such a damn fool, can you, can you forgive me?”

And this farmer finds himself saying, “Awww, hell, I knew that was your cat!”

And he looks over, and the carpenter is walking away, and he says, “Hey! Hey, I’ve got some more work for ya, if you ah….What?”

The carpenter says, “You’ll be fine… I’m needed elsewhere.”

For some reason the song strikes me a bit more these days. I hope you are building fences whether you are in your life-long home or moving on to somewhere new. No matter where I am, you can usually find David Wilcox along for the ride! Who do you take along with you when you are building bridges?